tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633005776513551336.post5417525206500514586..comments2022-11-12T23:20:44.093-08:00Comments on Critical Thinking: Old Men/Young Women, A Good Thing?ichbinaljhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07968729252544011395noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633005776513551336.post-91349835217805257452009-09-26T19:32:56.507-07:002009-09-26T19:32:56.507-07:00While ignorance and prejudice are nothing new in
N...While ignorance and prejudice are nothing new in<br />North America, there seems to be a rather recent trend of young women<br />using the Internet to broadcast their venomous, hateful, spiteful, and<br />bigoted views about older men's taste for younger women. I propose<br />that many of these women are pretentious, insecure, and above all<br />self-centered. They feel they're hot sh*t, and when stared at by fat<br />ugly old men (who indeed DO exist, just like fat ugly young girls),<br />they feel demeaned and cheapened, In their minds, they are so precious<br />that the only ones who should be seduced by them are the knights in<br />shining armors. Often, this narrow-minded outlook is suddenly and<br />magically broadened when the fat old man is also endowed with a fat<br />bank account.<br /><br />Fortunately, there also exist educated, tolerant, and open-minded<br />young women, just like there are good-looking, thin, and sexually<br />powerful older men. These two kinds may appreciate each other or not,<br />but in any case they act gracefully and show respect to each other.<br />There are no rules and no standards as far as attraction and/or love<br />are concerned. The conceited, bigoted nasty little nags deserve the<br />fat ugly old farts they attract.ichbinaljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07968729252544011395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633005776513551336.post-66196897992926496382009-09-26T19:31:39.608-07:002009-09-26T19:31:39.608-07:00I am 24 year old female and I have seen
many men a...I am 24 year old female and I have seen<br />many men and women who have more energy and look better (and even look<br />YOUNGER in some cases) than most 20-somethings in this day and age.<br /><br />reply.When a man loves a woman<br />September 18, 2009 by Anonymous, 1 week 1 day ago<br />Comment id: 44833 When a man loves a woman<br />Can't keep his mind on nothing else<br />He'll trade the world<br />For the good thing he's found<br />If she's bad he can't see it<br />She can do no wrong<br />Turn his back on his best friend<br />If he put her down<br /><br />When a man loves a woman<br />Spend his very last dime<br />Tryin' to hold on to what he needs<br />He'd give up all his comfort<br />Sleep out in the rain<br />If she said that's the way it ought to be<br /><br />Well, this man loves a woman<br />I gave you everything I had<br />Tryin' to hold on to your precious love<br />Baby, please don't treat me bad<br /><br />When a man loves a woman<br />Down deep in his soul<br />She can bring him such misery<br />If she plays him for a fool<br />He's the last one to know<br />Lovin' eyes can't ever see<br /><br />When a man loves a woman<br />He can do no wrong<br />He can never own some other girl<br />Yes when a man loves a woman<br />I know exactly how he feels<br />'Cause baby, baby, baby, you're my world<br /><br />When a man loves a woman.....ichbinaljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07968729252544011395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633005776513551336.post-87588361853442800772009-09-26T19:30:11.685-07:002009-09-26T19:30:11.685-07:00By the world's standards I am a successful car...By the world's standards I am a successful career<br />woman. I am healthy, 25 years old and the director of a thriving<br />non-profit after having received my M.S. I don't have a scarred<br />childhood and had a wonderful relationship with my father. To this day<br />I consider him a friend.<br /><br />That being said, I am deeply attracted to older men. I have been for a<br />long time and I appreciate their perspectives, experience, and their<br />often deferential treatment of me. I currently have a crush on a man<br />32 years my senior... and there is nothing unordinary about that.<br />While I realize some typical desires for women my age would be<br />sacrificed for a relationship with an older man, I can't help but<br />think it may be a worthwhile exchange.ichbinaljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07968729252544011395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633005776513551336.post-6862478217368317522009-09-26T19:27:31.400-07:002009-09-26T19:27:31.400-07:00Boy meets Girl falls in love, they get married.
G...Boy meets Girl falls in love, they get married.<br /><br />Girls wants house - boy leave college gets job<br />Girl gets pregnant - boy now gets second job<br />Girls wants bigger house and new car - boy now works overtime at both jobs<br /><br />Girl complains boy never pays her any attention, he is never home, he<br />always forgets his childs birthday/school play/etc....Girl gets<br />attention from young fit man that will fuck anything not moving (its<br />the genes)....<br /><br />DIVORCE!<br /><br />Sound familiar - because its MORE likely for a woman to cheat on her<br />man than it is for a man to cheat on his woman and this has been held<br />up in courts time and time again...<br /><br />Most women file for divorce because their stupid partner thinks they<br />can get back with them (this is where men are really stupid) and so<br />the women files for divorce as she wants to marry her 'new' partner<br />and start the process all over again.<br /><br />This is the real reason they are called House Keepers LOL!!!!!ichbinaljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07968729252544011395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633005776513551336.post-45692151281107239422009-09-26T19:25:30.932-07:002009-09-26T19:25:30.932-07:00Whilst on holiday a few years ago when I was 39, I...Whilst on holiday a few years ago when I was 39, I met a couple in<br />their late teens who seemed very happy together, however on returning<br />home, the girl made it quite clear she was more interested in me than<br />her partner and dumped him. No, I was extremely flattered and became<br />good friends with her but initially was not thinking about a<br />'relationship' due to the hefty age gap until I met her father, who<br />said to me, " Why have you not asked her out? She is madly in love<br />with you and never stops talking about you and to be honest I would<br />rather she dates someone that I know will look after her than some<br />spotty kid that just wants to get his leg over in the back of the<br />car!" So I did ask her out and three years after she finished her<br />education and training to be a Radiologist we married and I am now the<br />proud father of twin girls whom I would die for... I later found out<br />that her aunt was 20 years younger than her husband with a 28 year<br />marriage and 3 children in their teens...<br /><br />So never dismiss anything or anybody - as long as you are happy<br />together, age does NOT matter. Her Father thinks I am the 'dogs'<br />because I gave him his first grandchildren, her mother thinks that it<br />is the relationship with me that made her daughter finish her training<br />as she was not distracted elsewhere and her grandparents thinks that<br />our relationship was meant to be as she was old enough to KNOW what<br />SHE wanted.....ichbinaljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07968729252544011395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633005776513551336.post-53383898072211314622009-09-26T19:24:18.023-07:002009-09-26T19:24:18.023-07:00I cannot believe some of the spelling, grammar and...I cannot believe some of the spelling, grammar and<br />idiotic statements made by some of the posters in these comments -<br />they make me feel super human and I am just a normal bloke trying to<br />get by in life... but let us look at the facts.<br /><br />1. Statistically a man can reproduce over a longer period of time than a woman.<br />2. A woman is more likely to fall pregnant with a healthy child before<br />the age of 30-40.<br />3. A mans age does not appear to affects a childs health at birth.<br />4. Women tend to want security in order to settle down with a partner.<br />5. Men tend to want a fit healthy mother for their children.<br />6. Men on average live longer than women even in third world countries.<br />7. Nature not Nurture has more of an effect on our lives and length of life.<br />8. More boys survive childbirth however more boys die before the age<br />of 20 than girls.<br /><br />So when you look at the BASIC facts of life it actually makes more<br />sense for a younger woman to be attracted to an older man and visa<br />versa and maybe nature intended it this way to ensure young fit women<br />give birth to healthy children to help the survival of the race and<br />this would have been true in history as the death rate was so high in<br />childbirth and before the age of puberty. It used to be that as soon<br />as a girl could concieve she would be partnered off to an older man<br />for a dowry in order for the family to produce more children and it<br />was not until the death rate dropped and we created a 'civilised'<br />society that this was gradually replaced with laws on the age of<br />consent, marriage etc... however, that does NOT stop nature<br />interfering with the law.<br /><br />Now, over the years (I am 47) at various times in my life, I have<br />dated both girls younger than me and older than me, I have no<br />preference either way, it is the looks and the personality that I find<br />attractive rather than the age and girls, let's face it, if given the<br />choice, would you marry someone your own age for 'love' who was<br />penniless or an older man that could provide you love and security? An<br />interesting fact on this point is that marriages where one partner is<br />significantly older than the other (either way) actually last longer<br />than those of people getting married to people in their own 'peer'<br />group.<br /><br />Also, why is it that an older woman with a younger man is a 'wise<br />woman', but an older man with a younger woman is a 'dirty old man' or<br />a 'pervert'? And to finish off, I will give you a true story.ichbinaljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07968729252544011395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633005776513551336.post-36282757905552043262009-09-26T19:22:49.192-07:002009-09-26T19:22:49.192-07:00I can't believe that everyone has entirely mis...I can't believe that everyone has entirely missed<br />the point. Younger women are younger - they look. feel and think<br />differently. I am an attractive and smart woman now at 33 but I would<br />give anything to be 25 again. My face and body were amazing and I<br />could rebound with flawless energy and the flip of a hat. Now I am<br />tired and hurt and heart broken and sad and lonely and feel like NO<br />guy will ever want to marry me. Everything shows in my face and I am<br />scared shi&less when I am so easily passed over for a ripe juicy 22<br />year old with no worries and full of tits - know what I mean. I stand<br />no chance and I am too exhausted by guys to try. They love you one<br />minute and the next they talk to you like you are a stranger - I don't<br />get angry or frustrated I just feel like I expect it now and don't<br />even want to bother...,.<br /><br />Help!ichbinaljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07968729252544011395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633005776513551336.post-75185256969294237782009-09-26T19:21:09.192-07:002009-09-26T19:21:09.192-07:00But let's be clear. These are real women, not ...But let's be clear. These are real women, not passive sexual slaves.<br />They demand fidelity in a marriage, and if there is any sexual<br />indiscretion, it had better not be made public or stuck in the woman's<br />face. But every woman knows men's nature and as the years go by they<br />have to look the other way. It is the culture, not a Christian,<br />montized culture, but it is a culture, a way of living and<br />accommodating the sexes. Both sexes are a lot happier than the ones in<br />the West.<br /><br />Western women's great tragedy under Feminism is that there have been<br />unintended consequences for the socity they have created for<br />themselves. Remember Feminism changed both men's and women's lives,<br />but men did not participate in the changes. Women can get as angry as<br />they want about this, blame men for it, but their fertility rate is<br />falling, their marriage rate is falling, their divorce rate is rising.<br />Men have other options than to put up with self centered, demanding<br />women. And there is absolutley nothing in the natural law that<br />prevents older men from sleeping with younger women.<br /><br />I do not feel triumphal about how great my personal life has been<br />after getting away from Western women. Every man who lives where I<br />live agrees that if we could have this back home we would never come.<br />But Western women, unfortunately, have had there head stuck up a dark<br />passage for some thirty years now and they are not in the least<br />interested in men's happiness or contentment or fulfillment of their<br />sexual nature. As the time worn phrase says, 'you made your bed, now<br />lie in it.'<br /><br />Western women created the atmosphere they now breathe and only they<br />can change it.ichbinaljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07968729252544011395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633005776513551336.post-91627137128332824302009-09-26T19:20:23.484-07:002009-09-26T19:20:23.484-07:00The women's comments, with a
few exceptions, a...The women's comments, with a<br />few exceptions, are scathing of men and are delivered at the visceral<br />level. There is little logic present and way too much anger, but<br />that's just the way women are. Any articles, any science, that<br />purports to show the limitations of their biology and their<br />desirability will provoke outrage. I have learned that there is simply<br />no point in trying to argue with this venting. Whatever is wrong with<br />women's lives ,it is men's fault. I accept that about women.<br /><br />But there is something that is missed in most of the implications of<br />this science and that is culture, not biology, culture. Most of the<br />angry women, if not all, are from feminized cultures in the West where<br />they have been told for more than a generation that they are equal to<br />men in all respects, even at the biological level. Here is a contrast.<br /><br />I have lived for nealry 11 years in South East Asia where the cultures<br />are not femininzed. It is not because of lack of education or low IQ<br />rates; it is because of culture. I know you want to accuse these<br />cultures as being simply male dominated for the pleasure of men, but<br />the culture I was referring to is the female culture. Women have never<br />compromised themselves as women. They are feminine, they know they are<br />fertile, they know that fertility has an end to it and the absolute<br />majority want to be mothers. The glass ceiling is an irrelevant<br />concept for them. They expect men to be the enablers of their and<br />their children's lives. They seek good men to take care of them and<br />their children and the men seek beauty. There are often great age<br />differences between men and women and the concept of mistresses<br />exists. Western women may see this as degrading, but that is a view<br />from far away by people who may have more money but they are not more<br />civilized on account of it.ichbinaljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07968729252544011395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633005776513551336.post-1741964565703686052009-09-26T19:18:42.395-07:002009-09-26T19:18:42.395-07:00As such, it is possible that this mecanism, with m...As such, it is possible that this mecanism, with men reproducing with<br />younger woman, had an evolutionary value, but none at this day and<br />age, and in the conditions a lot of countries are in. Countries where<br />it is easier to live might not be defined by this model because their<br />population do not need this to ensure their survival.<br /><br />I would also like to add that we do not need to reproduce for the good<br />of the planet. There is no such need now. We are six billions people,<br />a huge increase since the 1950's, one that has many questionning the<br />future of our planet faced with our growing needs.<br /><br />To end, Tuljapurkar and al (2007), based on Rogers (1994), wrote<br />"Unlike the reproduction of clonal organisms, human mating patterns<br />depend on the age and sex structure of populations and on culturally<br />defined rules of pairing. "<br /><br />The age and sex structure of the population is ever changing in this<br />day and age, and the cultural rules of pairing are the not the same<br />everywhere. This article had for goal to try to create a bi-gender<br />model of human senescence, but not to serve as an argument for those<br />who would wish to use it for their own gain. Western society allows<br />for people to love and live as they want. ( as long as it's within the<br />law, of course).<br /><br />If a younger female and an older man love each other, good for them.<br /><br />If a younger man loves an older female, also good.<br /><br />But we are all responsible adults. If two people are together, it's by<br />choice, not because "older men chasing younger women contributes to<br />human longevity and the survival of the species", not in western<br />societies.<br /><br />Icefelisichbinaljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07968729252544011395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633005776513551336.post-71927789043960110292009-09-26T19:17:47.032-07:002009-09-26T19:17:47.032-07:00In this line of thought, the authors provide in th...In this line of thought, the authors provide in their original article<br />a graph showing that men's reproductive ability declines quicker in<br />France than in Pakistan, which is also higher than Cameroun.<br />Furthermore, a graph shows that in Canada, males and females<br />reproductive cycles follow each others more closely than in the other<br />samples. This suggests that samples from modern countries are not as<br />bound by this evolutionary perspective as countries still with limited<br />access to medical care and with higher death rates. This brings me to<br />my next point.<br /><br />That being said, these scientists' samples are far from representative<br />from today's world. Indeed, comparing France, Canada and Pakistan,<br />along with samples from Paraguay, Gambia, Bostwana, etc is not telling<br />of were we are at now. Studying populations having a lifestyle closer<br />to our previous one can provide important information from an<br />evolutionary perspective, but does not provide information on where<br />this evolution has lead us to NOW. This piece also point this out:<br />"They're living a lifestyle that our ancestors lived and their<br />fertility patterns are probably most consistent with our ancestors.<br />Puleston said about the four groups".<br /><br />Thus, their conclusion, while logical, needs to be based on a wider<br />sample more representative of today's humans. I will not argue that<br />this may have applied itself for earlier societies, and can be applied<br />for population living in harsher conditions, but we do not all live<br />like we did then. What we gained or used as a mean for survival then<br />could very well not hold true anymore today. For example, we still<br />have an appendice, but have very little use for it anymore, as we do<br />not eat grass. Another example; some people's ears wiggle when they<br />are startled. This had value before, but no value whatsoever nowadays.ichbinaljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07968729252544011395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633005776513551336.post-57843709714190612952009-09-26T19:16:44.678-07:002009-09-26T19:16:44.678-07:00The argument that this piece wishes to defend is a...The argument that this piece wishes to defend is a<br />sore misinterpretation of the scientific article produced by<br />Tuljapurkar, Puleston and Gurven (2007). The authors present a model<br />explaining human senescene taking into consideration both genders, and<br />that, from an evolutionary perspective. While the title is quite eye<br />catching, and meant to attract readers' curiosity, it does not mean<br />that the authors endorse 60 years old ditching their partner in order<br />to chase much younger women and reproduce with them.<br /><br />It would be interesting to note that the scientists used 6 sample<br />groups to compare men and women, but that, out of these, only one came<br />from a modern country where birth control, be it condoms or the pill,<br />is readily available. The 5 other samples came from samples in<br />countries where such means are harder to find, such as the Ache, a<br />hunter-gatherer society in Paraguay, the Tsimane, an indigenous<br />forager-farming group in Bolivia and a group of vilages in Gambia.<br />Having children is a risk for women, and can lead to death. If one<br />considers that most females will stay with their partner until they<br />die, as in a lot cultures it is not into a woman's interest to<br />"divorce", it would make sense for these older men to have been in a<br />position to find a much younger female, instead of a female his own<br />age. Moreover, since human death is much higher in countries where<br />medical aid is less accessible, it is no wonder that men were<br />encouraged to procreate, to favour a bigger social group, that is,<br />ensure enough people to work, to defend the social group and to ensure<br />its continuity.ichbinaljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07968729252544011395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633005776513551336.post-55249583531726959462009-09-26T19:14:37.877-07:002009-09-26T19:14:37.877-07:00Myself being a 53 year old woman - I have to say I...Myself being a 53 year old woman - I have to say I<br />never have trouble getting dates - I work out at the gym - and I am<br />told I look much younger than my age - exercise keeps your skin<br />looking younger - I have a nice hairstyle and I am continually<br />complimented on my figure - and I do get attention from younger men<br />also - I myself had a 10 year relationship with a man 11 years younger<br />than me - we had a great time - and I also dated a man older than<br />myself when I was in my 30's - so it's just a number - so for the man<br />that says women are "ugly" after menopause - not all women - and just<br />so you over 50 guys know - we're not loving your receding hairlines<br />and potbellys and lack of sexual stamina - but you do the best you can.ichbinaljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07968729252544011395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633005776513551336.post-78312600640099179882009-09-26T19:13:39.238-07:002009-09-26T19:13:39.238-07:00Survival of the species, making babys, is the core...Survival of the species, making babys, is the core<br />of man&woman relations. For healthy normal men, the vagina is the most<br />beautiful thing God ever made. and a good looking super healthy mature<br />man, does very well , anywhere. even a poor one. yours truly had the<br />best three years of my life with a gorgeous just turned sixteen year<br />old,(i was forty-eight,at the time) till her jealous hypocrite cougar<br />excuse for a mother broke us up. but i'm over it, there's a million of<br />em to take her place.Thinking young ladys will always be attracted to<br />a kinder matured man, especially so when our sexual skills are finely<br />honed. all you jealous types can kma, we really have a good laugh over<br />your nashing of teeth. Grind on! LOLLOLLOL!!!ichbinaljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07968729252544011395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633005776513551336.post-89741353230112705832009-09-26T19:12:09.895-07:002009-09-26T19:12:09.895-07:00Talk about the old man's denial syndrome here....Talk about the old man's denial syndrome here. I<br />can't believe what I am reading. Earth calling old men....we do not<br />want you nor do we think you are attractive and we are laughing when<br />you marry that younger girl who just wants that fat settlement she<br />will get a few years later. Sorry to say that other dude has it<br />right....she will also have a bf on the side and you won't feel good<br />when you come home and find his d*ck in her mouth LMAO. Anyway I am 22<br />so probably too old for most of you guys. You just want lil girls so<br />they dont know how small your noodle is :))))))))))))) You are so NOT<br />in touch with reality so go back to your old home and stop acting like<br />you can still get it up on your own.ichbinaljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07968729252544011395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633005776513551336.post-65051103369824758092009-09-26T19:10:39.990-07:002009-09-26T19:10:39.990-07:00I'm a 48 yr old divorced male. I had until rec...I'm a 48 yr old divorced male. I had until recently,<br />never dated a woman more than a couple years younger than me. I<br />recently met a charming, witty and very mature much younger woman.<br />It's not about ego and I've never been the kind of guy that goes out<br />to try to pick up women, younger or older. But I have found somewhat<br />of a kindred spirit. Who cares how old she is? Age matters for wines<br />and cheeses. So stop whining. Perhaps those of you who are might<br />realize that your attitude is the reason that I seem "old" to you.ichbinaljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07968729252544011395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633005776513551336.post-77307312481304280602009-09-26T19:09:08.054-07:002009-09-26T19:09:08.054-07:00"I personally find older men repulsive. They
..."I personally find older men repulsive. They<br />generally age much worse and more rapidly than women and aren't as<br />good-looking, no matter how much weight they decide to lose or how<br />many procedures they choose to undergo. Now, that's a biological,<br />conspicuous fact!"<br /><br />This part made me laugh the most, because we all know that its men<br />that age better than women..<br /><br />you sound so bitter, angry and superficial. such a shame.<br /><br />I'm 35 and I've been with women born between 1958 and 1991. I don't<br />see anything wrong with it. If someone makes you happy, they make you<br />happy, regardless of age. period.<br /><br />I always thought the reason so many women end up jaded by 30 was due<br />to when they were younger, guys their own age just used and abused<br />them, so they end up hating all men. I would think an older guy would<br />treat a younger woman with more respect and dignity since we mature a<br />lot slower than women and it takes us a while to get out of that<br />young/arrogant/brazen phase. But that's just me, I cant speak for all<br />men. But at the same time, I wont pass my opinions off as fact like<br />this female has attempted and failed at miserably.<br /><br />Beauty and youth fade darling and it looks like you're in for a rude<br />awakening. lmaoichbinaljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07968729252544011395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633005776513551336.post-86521568861873429412009-09-26T19:07:37.315-07:002009-09-26T19:07:37.315-07:00well said, the problem with our society is we are
...well said, the problem with our society is we are<br />too busy looking through our eyes rather than the hearts of men and<br />women. An older man who has it togeather is far better than a young<br />bum across the street.ichbinaljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07968729252544011395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633005776513551336.post-32063019826577525022009-09-26T19:06:21.340-07:002009-09-26T19:06:21.340-07:00"As a young, attractive, straight, highly sol..."As a young, attractive, straight, highly solicited<br />female myself....... "<br /><br />Wow! It must be great being YOU. Are you for real? Because you're the<br />kind of woman men will do anything for.<br /><br />"The plain truth is younger women who are financially secure and<br />psychologically stable simply aren't attracted to you."<br /><br />A woman who claims to be psychologically stable and highly solicitous<br />must spend a lot of time each day developing herself? Because one<br />cannot acquire such skills without hard work. The results we get in<br />life is the effort we put in.<br /><br />Young and financially secure? Are you really or just pretending to be<br />or perhaps you only like the idea of being financially secure?<br /><br />So, as a highly solicitous person like yourself, it will not be<br />difficult to answer these simple questions, will it? If you don't,<br />then it means that everything you've claimed to be was a lie.ichbinaljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07968729252544011395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633005776513551336.post-65260313938491169722009-09-26T19:05:09.728-07:002009-09-26T19:05:09.728-07:00"As a young, attractive, straight, highly sol..."As a young, attractive, straight, highly solicited<br />female myself..... financially secure and psychologically stable"<br /><br />The truth is that a woman who possesses all of those traits will not<br />mention these to anyone. These traits will only be mentioned if<br />someone is trying to describe someone else.<br /><br />Sounds like a dissatisfied older woman trying to pass herself off as<br />someone else.<br />What a bitch! Get a life!ichbinaljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07968729252544011395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633005776513551336.post-41740169888260484022009-09-26T19:04:04.015-07:002009-09-26T19:04:04.015-07:00Im in love with a man who is almost 30years older
...Im in love with a man who is almost 30years older<br />than me. Im 35 years old,attractive, almost financialy stable, more<br />mentality stable than most in our current society and a single mum.<br />For reasons which I wish not to disclose our relationship which is a<br />meaningful and beautiful friendship, may possibly never eventuate to<br />marriage and children. If it were possible I would have marriage and<br />babies with him tomorrow.<br />I don't understand your comments down below. It seems that there is<br />alot of jealousy with older women.<br />This has been a recent revelation to me, wanting to be with a much<br />older man. And I wish I had it earlier, I would rather be wih an older<br />man who may have a low libido, health problems, wisdom, knowledge,<br />stability, to be spiritualy and mentality intact than a man my age.<br />Overall an older man is more comfortable in his own skin and fully<br />matured.<br />I'm dissapointed to see that society frowns upon it, because it means<br />I will be given a hard time as I have already made up my mind, my<br />future mate is going to be seriously old I'll make sure of it.ichbinaljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07968729252544011395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633005776513551336.post-604211829343264102009-09-26T18:58:37.887-07:002009-09-26T18:58:37.887-07:00Seems like a bunch of crap trying to pass as
scien...Seems like a bunch of crap trying to pass as<br />science!... A very odd theory, to say the least, as it still does not<br />explain why menopausic childless women's lifespan is still bigger than<br />men's, or why old men, who no longer expect to pass their genes on,<br />still continue to live until a ripe old age, for instance.<br /><br />All because older men feel threatned by the fact that women are not as<br />dumb today as they seemed to be during the "dark ages" and are pairing<br />up with younger men these days instead, I suspect... As a young,<br />attractive, straight, highly solicited female myself, I must tell old<br />guys something I'm sure they already know from their miserable life<br />experience... The plain truth is younger women who are financially<br />secure and psychologically stable simply aren't attracted to you. This<br />too ought to be accepted as a natural aspect of evolved behavior,<br />although I also suspect the MEN who co-authored the so-called study<br />won't feel inclined to dig into the subject.<br /><br />Older, ugly, fat, worn out men (to quote some of you, who have so<br />charmingly posted their views, or lack thereof) have nothing to offer<br />younger women, sexually speaking, unlike older women as far as younger<br />men go. Nor can they still help "make" babies in most cases, because<br />of age-related poor semen quality, let alone "pass on" good genes (or<br />any genes for what's worth), which, by the way, reminds me of the joke<br />of the old hunter and his neighbour... It's OK. I won't tell it<br />here... Suffice it to say, if it wasn't your gun that shot the lion,<br />it must have been your neighbour's. Older guys experience a similar<br />reproductive aging process as their "counterparts", the older gals,<br />with actual similar symptoms, which is called andropause, something<br />people don't usually discuss much. Besides, they're generally not able<br />to offer women other valuable assets, like emotional or psychological<br />stability, empathy, support, care, love and the like, also due to<br />andropause and, of course, the fact that the male brain hemispheres<br />are not as well connected as the female's... Who believes a douchebag,<br />who is empathetic and sensitive enough to say women his own age are<br />"ugly" and "something all worn-out", is actually capable of being<br />empathetic to younger women?!... I doubt he's ever been successful<br />with any woman at all, whether older or younger.<br /><br />I personally find older men repulsive. They generally age much worse<br />and more rapidly than women and aren't as good-looking, no matter how<br />much weight they decide to lose or how many procedures they choose to<br />undergo. Now, that's a biological, conspicuous fact!<br /><br />As the author of the article above pointed out at the end, men feel<br />"left out" this day and age. (Especially if they're old, if I may so<br />add...) Gee, I wonder why!ichbinaljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07968729252544011395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633005776513551336.post-53569457162246319772009-09-26T18:57:12.630-07:002009-09-26T18:57:12.630-07:00Women are expected to do most of the house chores,...Women are expected to do most of the house chores,<br />if not all. Plus, they are expected to look after the children on<br />their own. And some women also work part-time or full-time. Their<br />domestic responsibilities are often very time-consuming. On average,<br />men work 38-40 hours a week, while women work 60 hours a week or more.<br /><br />There is no equality in the domestic division of labour. And these are<br />the factors that led to the increased divorce rate.<br /><br />"In 2004, 71% of petitions were initiated by women, compared with 32% by men."<br />Is it surprising that there is an increased prevalence of divorce in<br />western societies?ichbinaljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07968729252544011395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7633005776513551336.post-33105087156622812722009-09-26T18:56:29.817-07:002009-09-26T18:56:29.817-07:00"In this depraved age MEN are the ones commit..."In this depraved age MEN are the ones committed to<br />the institution of marriage."<br /><br />Are men REALLY COMMITTED to the institution of marriage? Let's see.<br /><br />"Trying to blame a man for picking a younger, more attractive woman is<br />just as inane as expecting a woman to pick the bum on the street<br />instead of the guy who has his life together. Biology matters."<br /><br />"Men mature later, and they decline later, hardly surprising then that<br />they look for younger mates."<br /><br />So, how committed are they?ichbinaljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07968729252544011395noreply@blogger.com